he does help around the house.....but then he feels I should be paying him to do things..never seems to be enough that he has a roof over his head and food in his mouth and cigs. Put it this way his last check I am sure is almost gone.....spent at the bar of course......came home by 830....I was putting the kids to bed and he proceeds to drink and pick a fight , so I went to bed.....next thing I know it is 3 am and someone is dropping him off .....I was livid....and of course doesn't go to work the next day!! SHOCK!
thanks~ the more I talk outloud the more I know what I need to do...........