you are sober and thats great news! first your MAIN concern should be to remaining sober. take the steps neccesary to make this a life long promise to yourself and follow the steps needed to live a sober life.whatever it takes even if that means getting away and into a treatment program as your husband will be there when you come out.
second that leap is made and you are remaining sober you can work on repairing the relationships around you. if you are not well and not sober....these relationships cannot be mended. while mending them it is important to remember that the main concern for you and your loved ones is sobreity. everything else will follow and things will and do get better.
right now you have only remained sober for a week. it is natural to feel the way you do, these things take time and work.
best luck