DH and I talked again last night and he said I was right (as usual). He said her being here is causing stress between the two of us and that is unacceptable. He is going to set the boundaries with her on Sunday (doesnt want to ruin the whole weekend). Tell her she has 30 days unless there are further issues. An actual date has not been established with her yet. So I feel like it is only fair to do that .
I just finished the rest of the night in my room. but shortly after I noticed she was drunk she went in her room and stayed there. So, we will see how things go. DH and I are on the same page. Or at least the same book now, so at least if it is causing trouble with he and I, and it will, cause he doesnt like it when I am stressed, and I wont handle her crap well. So eventually it comes between us.
To be honest, I dont KNOW how much I can take, how much I am willing to take. I guess we will see.