Dear CAgirl, I endorse listening to RevivingOphelia--I have a very suspicious feeling about his motives. I don't think passivity or foot-dragging is in your best interest, right n ow. (not saying that you are doing that). Just agreeing wholeheartedly with RevivingOphelia.
***There is just something so icecold about his conduct, right now--I think I smell danger in the air****
sincerely, dandylion