So sorry you are going through this. I definitely would meet asap with your attorney and immediately file the correct motions to stop the financial manipulations... the courts will freeze all assets and moneys until an agreement is reached and should order him to take care of the bills and the money you need to continue to live in the same manner you did during your marriage.
Sounds like this A may need to become an XA.... when these things happen it is very revealing what their core character really is!