I think if it is a problem for you, then it's a problem, whatever else anyone calls it.
Welcome to SR, gs! I'm glad you found us, though sorry for what brought you here. I hope you will invest some time in reading the threads in this form and familiarize yourself with some of our stories about living with those who have a problem with drinking. Especially the Sticky threads at the top of the forum -- those contain a lot of experience, strength, and hope that's common to many of our stories here.