Dear Bluegalangal,
I went through many therapist with my ex. I think 5 of them. 3 of them told us we should divorce. One wanted us to read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus", warning ........... do not ever read that book. I left dents in the wall the time I read it. Other therapist asked me if I wanted to continue to help me with my co-dependency.
If you don't think you can do it, let him go alone. If you do go, can you take your own car, and leave before the appt is over?
I don't remember if you were thinking divorce. I'm sorry. It's just if this is the last appt, I think that he is really going to revvvv this up.
If things aren't going well during the appt if you do go, do you have a place to go to?