Thanks, All ((hugs))
Your replies mean a lot to me. You've given me a lot to think about and some very good practical ideas for how I can handle the situation. Thank you so much.
I'm definitely gonna get dressed up and have fun and enjoy myself and enjoy my friends! The party is at a beautiful fancy hotel downtown and it's going to be a night of great memories for sure.
I'll be sure to read this thread again before I head out this weekend too.