Woody, there is a TON of info on this forum, and I hope you are able to take a little time each day and read some of it. I'm a newcomer also and I have found so much help here. Granted, it's not always what I would LIKE to hear, but it is all heartfelt and caring. I hope you are able to make use of it.
There are also stickied sections that contain all kinds of resources, suggestions for books to read, particular threads that are especially helpful, and so on.
Wishing you all the best as you work towards peace and clarity!