Originally Posted by
Hanna 
In your shoes I think I would just strive to stop making any plans that depend upon him. Not easy emotionally but it is something within reach even while living together.
This is something I'm definitely going to be doing more aggressively. It usually happens super naturally... "Let's go meet meet up with so-and-so at the park tomorrow." Then cancelled plans and I have to stop wondering why.
To be honest, the hardest part of all this living together through this breakup and detachment period is that I can't really be home... Because I don't want to see him and stress myself out. But if I'm out, I get slanderous text messages from him the entire time. I've learned to turn my phone off and stop responding- as much as I want to fight back and argue and prove him wrong. It doesn't solve ANYTHING!