Originally Posted by
Sunshine2 
Are you looking after yourself and your own happiness as well? You are as important as he is.
I'm happy to say I'm getting better at this part. Every morning I read my books about overcoming codependence, I read new posts on the forum, I write in my journal, I think about getting better and what I can do in the day that would make me feel more in control of MY life... I can definitely see an improvement in myself. I'm better than I was last week, better than I was two weeks ago, and better than I was a month ago.