Thank you BlueSkies - I do feel the validation! I am going to continue with one day at a time. So thankful to be here and in Alanon.
Also I just want to clarify when I say change feels good - I am not saying because of what he is doing (I am glad that he is working on himself), but I mean - just change in our life period - things had to change whether it be for better or worse - Not saying I like change, but that is what has to happen for me to get off of this merry-go-round that I have been on way too long!
I am working on me - something that I have learned from reading on here - daily! And it has made a huge difference just knowing that I dont have to take on the world's problems - I am only responsible for me! I have a long way to go, but at least I am not alone thanks to you guys!