Originally Posted by
lizatola
I told him we needed to be done with the counseling together and that I will let AH know. I told AH today that we both just need to keep working on our own recoveries(programs of our own choosing or path to take/whatever) but that the marriage counseling was going nowhere.
Being someone's punching bag in therapy was giving me too much anxiety and stress and it was not a good place for me. I finally feel better today just for taking that tiny step!
Oh HOORAY FOR YOU!
I am hoping I get the courage to step back myself. I know the attitude will be, well, I was willing to try, YOU quit, but I have to get past that. Stop letting his views affect me. I can't change them.