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Old 04-11-2013, 04:23 PM
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Bluegalangal
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Originally Posted by lizatola View Post

I told him we needed to be done with the counseling together and that I will let AH know. I told AH today that we both just need to keep working on our own recoveries(programs of our own choosing or path to take/whatever) but that the marriage counseling was going nowhere.

Being someone's punching bag in therapy was giving me too much anxiety and stress and it was not a good place for me. I finally feel better today just for taking that tiny step!
Oh HOORAY FOR YOU!

I am hoping I get the courage to step back myself. I know the attitude will be, well, I was willing to try, YOU quit, but I have to get past that. Stop letting his views affect me. I can't change them.
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