Deep breath sweetie.
Phew. That is a lot, good news is you found us, and we are here to support you in anyway we can.
Can I ask, is your family nearby??? Willing to help you???
Sounds like you need to make some kind of move.
He doesn't have to threaten you with committing suicide, sounds like he is in the process of doing just that. His business.
Please keep posting, we care.
Katie