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The universe works in wonderful ways sometimes. I was just put in touch with someone who gave me a great suggestion. Actually just got off the phone with him. Maybe his suggestion will help. Make a box. Anytime you have one of those thoughts and it is out of your control, write it down and put it in the box for the universe to sort out. At the end of the week, look at everything in there and get rid of anything that is no longer a problem. If you are able to solve something, work on it. If it still is beyond your control, put it back in the box.
I am starting mine tonight.