hey, I have a wonderful positive! I had some really great plans for today that started with lunch with a friend out of town at 11:30. I was planning on getting out of town on time, but one thing came up then another, then another and then another and I didn't even get out of town until almost noon, BUT, she waited for me and we had lunch late and I had a nice day. I could have blown a gasket, but I didn't! I dealt with it and enjoyed my day with my friend and also got most of my Christmas shopping done. Yeah me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!