On 11th last month I told my abf to leave he moved in with another alcoholic woman he had met in rehab then 9 days later told me he was in a new relationship (that hurt)
^^^this should be the definitive END of story. ask yourself why you still hold on....and what IS it you hold on to? and how a $1.32 hallmark card makes it all better?
relationships have beginnings, middles and ends. MOST end. our job is to learn when it is time to END relationships which no longer serve us well, or bring us pain. by doing so we learn to hold ourselves in HIGH regard and not to accept or allow ourselves to be mistreated. EVER.