Update
So, its april 5th, been threw the ringer and back. she's been parading this guy around with my kids for the past few weeks. I left the house to stay with a friend to keep from doing something stupid.
she said today on the phone she is taking the kids to florida. we will see about that.
anyway im doing better. I'm actually glad to be out of the marriage now that im seeing it from the other side. I was a freaking slave to her.