For me ~ cruel is the total opposite of what I think we do when we step out of the way of the A's in our lives ~
when we stop trying to help, trying solve problems, trying this & that - we allow the A's the ability to find the own dignity, self-respect and self-love to make their own decisions to find their own way -
After all - who am I to know what is best for another person ~ am I their Higher Power? Do I see all things? Do I know all things? That is a most definite NO. For me, I learned I needed to just step out of the way and allow that individual to be just that - an individual ~ able to find their own path ~
To me that is the most giving, loving and respectful thing you can do for another person - to look at it as cruel to me is just baffling ~
just my e, s, & h
pink hugs