I take a good look, assess the situation, come to a conclusion, and then make my decision what I am going to do with the next several hours.
I used to get all torn up, frantic, emotional, and take it personally.
Now I see it for what it is. A drunk person.
Not reading anything more into it than that, not feeling I have to react in anyway except to decide what I am going to do with my time, has completely freed me.
It doesn't have to be about more than what it is.