Thanks Dee,
I am not sure where to start my wife started drinking more and more about 8 years ago and things have just deteriorated. I support the family and she does the drinking. I tend to shun social occasions because of her embarrassing me and the kids. Her friends just get fewer and fewer. She went to rehabilitation once but it didn't work, she doesn't think she has a problem. If I divorce / leave her she wouldn't have anywhere to go to. Do I just ignore her drinking or do I confront her every time she drinks?