Dandylion - Unfortunately I do see my DD has been damaged by the atmosphere in our home. It is heartbreaking. I want to do what is best for her. I am starting to accept my reality and it seems that divorce is my only choice. My energy has been sapped!! I have some days where I feel really good then other days where I feel like the life has been sucked out of me. I want to be the best I can be - especially for my daughter.