Help!
I have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months now and all was grand and rosy to start with as he didn't drink for the first month or so and he said he hadn't drank for a while but now he drinks a whole bottle of wine plus some bottles of beer almost every night of the week, often sitting up on his own drinking after I go to bed then he falls asleep on the couch and I have to get up and get him to come to bed. If I so much as mention that I think he has a problem he gets all defensive! How can I help, support and guide him without sounding like a nag?! Or maybe I can't and he has to see it for himself first!
Any help is much supported. Apart from this one massive thing we have a wonderful relationship!