My fiancee thinks my sons not wanting to do anything with us is very negative. I try to explain that they are teens and they don't want to go fishing or to the movies with parents. He says "I'm not hanging around all weekend just because (my 14 year old) has a soccer game." He doesn't want to be "stuck at home" on the weekends I need to be home with my kids I alternate weekends with my ex. I do understand in terms of the kids being teens and they don't do anything with us anyway, but I am a parent and I do need to be around even if my teens are out and about.