My fiancee likes to drink socially and likes to drink one or two nights a week. He feels he is entitled to drink on a Friday night. He does not hide his drinking. I have found myself secretly buying a bottle of wine to deal with the stresses of the situation. He IS very charming and my life has been much more interesting with him. He moved into my home and has been a good partner in many ways. However when he is unhappy he tends to blame me. I am concerned about my drinking because I have been secretive about it, and I will often substitute drinking in place of working out to feel better. That was never me before.