When you do love someone, unselfishly so, you would do anything for them, and die for them. Be patient, understanding of their world, respect and admire that.
I vehemently disagree with this part of your post, and the other bits and pieces that romanticize the destructive and life-denying life of an addict and their codependent.
Crushing noises and a glass pipe? I think you know exactly what that is, and it is amazing to me that you would act as if this was a normal "life style choice" made by a competent adult.
I guess I do not understand your point. Are you saying that a drug abuser is just in a different stage of life and you should respect and support them?
How far are you willing to go with that support?
Are you willing to go that far to find recovery for yourself?
I certainly hope so, you sound like a caring person who maybe got off track somewhere, and you are no longer with this woman.
Sincerely,
Beth
recovering from everything.
