Yes. Black and white thinking. Also, codependents find it hard to find answers. All I can do is one thing for today.
I asked myself this morning, which is the better thing first? Going to a shelter and being without a home, or being without cigarettes and giving that my all?
I wrote a 10th step on it and saw again how good being smoke free could be. So that's what I'm giving a try. I have one left (fear!) I already threw away all the coffee in the house, as they go hand in hand.
Thanks for your friendship. I hope you have a nice night.