You're making excellent sense, Dominorose. As a person who has struggled my entire life with disability, (polio) I know first hand that there is something "magically delicious" in any struggle that is allowed to be natural as possible, without superfluous interventions, gimmicks, etc.
Often enough, I can "forget" my disabilities, even though the struggle continues going forward. This kind of "forgetfulness" is a worthy and valuable achievement for its own sake.
I'm glad you are feeling supported in your new thread!