Originally Posted by amy55

My .02cents. He is trying to turn you against your mother. This doesn't even justify as quacking.

Become self-sufficient, and he won't be able to hurt you like this.

No divorce does not put someone in the poor-box.

He is trying to complain to your that your mother will get alimony. My ex used that one on my kids also. That if he didn't have to pay me, he would have more money to spend on them. Thing is, at the end of the divorce he still had more incoming money then I did. About $40,000. a year.

Is he going to live in his car? Absolutely not, unless he chooses to. His business is doing bad, he can always go back to court to try to reduce alimony. This is not quacking, this is plain BS. Trying to get your sympathy, and trying to turn you against your mother.