He wants a clean slate and, of course, wants his sex life back.
omg, ick, did he really say that? in the letter? and you are a smoldering rage of - no wait you HAVE a smoldering sub current of rage which he doesn't want to BLAME you for?
what about this was romantic, tender, caring, selfless, or loving? it's STILL all about HIM, not about YOU. just words....blah blah blah....i'm gonna, i'm ashamed, I meant this to be for my therapist but whoopsie shared it with my wife.
liz, get over it. it means.....nothing. stop letting him play you.