Originally Posted by Hermeticdog

Maybe I thought he'd go back to being affectionate. He does say he loves me all the time, when I get to see him. I keep telling myself there's no reason to leave. He doesn't harm me, he doesn't harm my dogs, he barely makes a mess (he hardly eats, so no dishes. barely any laundry now that he isn't working, although he does still shower, it's just not as often. but, he's also good about cleaning up his beer cans!) I have absolutely NO reason to believe he may be cheating, he's affectionate, kind, caring toward me, loving, when he ISN'T hiding (which hiding has become a lot more common, now)...plus, I am desperately in love with him..