I am going to try my best to remember my feelings are just that, feelings. I managed to calm myself some but I am still pretty mad. For now, I am going to let things play out a bit. I am ready to split if I need to, I have some things lined up. I cant know for sure what will happen but this is it, if my boundaries are pushed I am fully prepared to call it quits and walk away. This may very well be my best chance to get out, maybe her being there is just the buffer I need with him. I dunno, it sucks.