Thank you, sparkle. I couldnt quite put it in words but yea, i feel like my toes are being ever so lightly stepped on and it is going to led to my "rule" being completely ignored. I am done, i havent felt this betrayed and angry in a while. Complete and utter lack of respect. I told him its his mom, his problem. He saud I was cold. Yep I kinda am, i cant help it. This pushes me to places so uncomfortable that I cant ignore it. He acts as if she is a normal person just coming to visit but she isnt, she might be to.him.cause he is similar but to me they are the furtherst thing from "normal". I am still in a slight panic, I am pacing completely clueless as to my next step or if I should even take one. Should I just sit back and see what unfolds or stop it before it does? No one knows of course, my mind is just trying to piece it all together.