mammacat
What a wonderful way to put it.
Thing is now though... I feel I am that spoiled kid. Protected, lifted up when I fall. Given things I do not deserve. BUT I still am allowed to feel the consiquences of my mistakes. They are the thing that helps me grow. Also I find that when troubled times come to life... I draw closer to God and that also helps me grow. The more I rely on Him and trust in Him... the better my life becomes.
Troubles in life can be such a blessing for sure.
Troubles in life also make the joys of life that much more a joy filled time.