I read a weariness in your posts and that is no surprise. You've had so much going on in the last week. As my friend says whenever I've been dealing with too much, "Now is not the time to get a tattoo!" Meaning - no permanent decisions need to be made today. She also says "You need a nap!" and means it both metaphorically and physically; after so much difficulty we need a big rest to rejuvenate ourselves and see things in better light.
Your concern for him is very sweet and right. The right thing, stay where you are or move on, will come to you two when it is time. Lay down your worries for a few days. Life will unfold as it should on it's own time and things will get better.