Hanna, Yes, its true that it takes time. I am willing to give it time. I see my husbands misery and with all that i have put him through in the last week? He is unhappy. We are a unit and his happiness in this marriage is of great importance. Co-workers are just that, co-workers. I have no confidence in my decision making abilities at this moment. I figure, if he wants to leave.....lets leave. Im at a crossroads anyways. My new employer has still not gotten back to me about hours at the Eatery. Im starting to think it is all a sign....