Forgiving yoirself and others: how did you do it?
What have you learned about forgiveness? Either towards others or yourself or both?
I could use some general thoughts about it from others, if you have any.
Currently I am at the point of realizing that non forgiveness is another way that I have devised to keep feeling sorry for myself and not take responsibility for my future... because unforgiving allows me to stay stuck.
Which is also what drinking did!! Allowed me to stay stuck. So how convenient for me to stay nonforgiving toward myself.... I dont drink and i dont have to move on. I am creating a.noble persona as rationale for self indulgence.
Anyway any thoughts? Anything from your own experience to share?
Thanks.