Do I stay silent on this discovery?
I guess when I'm asking myself a question like this.....I will rephrase it to see if my response to it changes.....it is a way to explore my feelings about it and my own motivations.
I might change it to....."what would be achieved if I brought this matter to his attention?"
Or
"What are my motivations to bring it up?"
Or
"Would I be trying to make a point by bringing it up?"
Or
"Do I have an expected response from him if I do bring it up."
Sometimes when I pose the situation (or question) from several different angles, it helps me to understand me and my motivations better.
Breathe deep and count to......100.....or 1,000.
gentle hugs
ke