Yeah, I'm not a flag waver for the cause of "we're different and special" either. Some folks like to really be part of something exclusive though, and its really not important to me.
As individuals we're all unique enough already, is my understanding. I'm more a loner then anything else, and it suits me well enough. Having said that, I'm certainly different for my experiences then I would have been without my experiences... we all are of course.