Originally Posted by
redatlanta 
I find his comment that your marriage would cause him to drink to be about as low as one can go - what a weak assed man to put that on you, and its utterly untrue.
My AW blames me for any/all problems in our marriage! Forget the fact she is ACoA, or that she had verbaly/physically abusive ex-BF's, or other nasty things happen to her that she won't deal with.. Nope, it's all my fault!!
Thank God for Detachment - I know better.
C-OH Dad