Did we just not know them?????
One of my friends says we never really know a person..
So after 20 years with a person, is that possible? Do A's change so much once they get into recovery? Does drinking hide who they really are or change there personality? And is it possible to be fooled for that many years?
My STBXRAH says he woke up one day and "felt different"...it seemed overnight. He went from telling me every day that he didn't want to lose his family and had realized how much we meant to him, to I was never happy and if Im with you I will drink. Of course this big change happened coincidently almost to the day he met the woman he got involved with so I question the rational.
But his behavior since leaves me questioning if I ever really knew him?
Wondering if this is the norm for recovering A's .....