Welcome plumpretty!
Like Coldfusion said, this is the newcomers section, where most everyone comes when they first sign up. It's a good place to introduce yourself and get responses/support.
We also have a forum for Friends & Family of Alcoholics and you'll find lots of people there going through the same thing you are.... here's the link:
Friends and Family of Alcoholics - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information
Glad you decided to join us!