She does not have a key (she lost it) so she came over and in when the younger kids and I were just getting home and the door was unlocked. But I have been locking all the doors at night and when we are not here.
I have been to a few Al-Anon meetings and will start going again. My other daughter is 13 and she has said she might be interested in going. My 2 boys are too young.
I havent wanted to go to a meeting this week while AD is acting out. Im afraid to leave the leave the kids (the 13 year old will baby sit on occasion). But I do need to go b/c even if the kids cant go, it certainly helps me cope and help them deal with this too.