I just take what I want from AA and leave the rest. Theres no question I cannot do it alone(stay sober) so I choose to go to meeting and when I feel its getting too religous for me I just somewhat listen but will think of other things I will be doing after the meeting or just look around and study peoples faces for my own interest on how different we all are,then go back to focus on meeting. And if I go to a meeting that I do not really feel comfortable with I just find another meeting for the next week for that day. As long as I go I know it greatly decreases my chances of slipping away.