Sorry if my post came across as harsh Non ,
I used to have notions such as :-
It's dinner every civilized person has wine with dinner,
I've worked hard i deserve to have a few beers ,
It's a party lets get drunk and high .
It's friday night ,
By working on changing my mind about these pre-conceptions i now have no desire for them , if you have no desire do you have an AV ?
Bestwishes, M