Hi there and Welcome back.
You are not convinced because it is hard, that's why.
It's really stinking hard. Ugh, I know that awful feeling.
But you know, or you wouldn't be here posting about it.
(((hugs))) I'm sorry. It sucks but you know in your heart what is right, right?
Prayers for you and for your son.
If you are wrong, throwing him out will not cause him to lose his job.
When we've got our heads together we solve problems that come along, including ones of finding housing when needed. Basically letting him stay will postpone the inevitable, give chaos an opportunity to visit your home but maybe keep you from having to make a very tough choice.