Early recovery is a tough time for people in a relationship too, Melissa.
I don't know what your relationship is like and what approach is better - you may find down the track that other peoples drinking won't be such a red button issue.
but for now, I do know one of the things I had to learn was people were going to be annoyed with me when I stood up for what I wanted and needed.
I used to be very complaint.
The changes in me took some people back, but I never regretted them because I knew I need to make those changes - for me.
It was difficult to sit with peoples displeasure, but I got over it - and so did they
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