Pot, crack, lies addict insight
I have posted before regarding my AH....
In January he went on a huge binge for 3 days, work for a few days then another binge etc etc.
He won't talk about if he will be moving out or not. Every time I ask him what his plans are he says I'm interrogating him.
He just returned from two weeks away at work. I told him that I would not live with someone in active addiction. Again he got mad.
From the start of our relationship 4 years ago I told him no drugs were acceptable. A friend of his told him that when he felt he was spiralling downward to smoke pot. This would avoid a crack bender.
I have known him to smoke pot a handful of times but of course being the Codie I am thought this was better than a crack bender.
Tonight I asked him if he was going to get our holiday trailer and move.
He said that I didn't want to live with an active addict - my fault right? For not wanting to be with someone who goes to the store and doesn't come home for three days and has spent all of the money
My questions are.....
If you are an addict pot is not ok is it? Just the same as alcohol?
Why is it usually the non addicted person that needs to make the moving out decision?
Just needed some validation and clarification please.
More likely confirmation I am being bamboozled with b$lls@it!
Thanks.