Oh, I disagree with the plan MLC.
It's heavily dependant on your husband for one thing, and while I appreciate you have several issues to be addressed, I think some inpatient treatment would have been a far better safer option for you and your kids, whatever the logostics.
but I'm not a Dr - and I'm not your Dr.
All I can go on is what you've typed here over 1324 posts.
I appreciate there's probably stuff I don't know.
I really do wish you the best - I hope the advice you're getting is good.
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