Sas,
I say this with love, I think you are reading too much into it and making it personal. I know you already feel raw and hurt and yes it may feel like the right thing to do now, but lashing out is not going to help. Not you, not anyone else. Believe me, my early days I did plenty of it and I regret just about everything I posted in anger.
As far oking things with Dee... I think he has quite enough on his plate already.